The Right One

Finding your way in the jungle of life.When is the right time to get into a relationship? When is the right time to get married? And if you are already in a relationship, how do you keep yourself pure and chaste until you are married? The bible says that sex is reserved for the married, and while you are single, what can you do to keep your mind off temptations?

[ Three crucial things you can do while you are single]

1. Get to know God

Exodus 20: 2-3

Read your bible and spend time with HIM!

2. Develop yourself

Firstly, get to know who you are: your interests, hobbies, friends, what you want in life and so on. Next, you must build up your character. Spend your time wisely with good people or do meaningful things, because this will shape your character. Remember, your friends and enemies define you! Finally, stay BUSY! Many people get into early relationships, and most of them end up having premarital sex before they even get married. IF you keep yourself busy by serving God, this will help you to remain chaste until you are ready.

2 Samuel 11: 1-2

3. Find the main road

How do we find the main road? Just follow step 2 and stay busy! Only then can you find your true calling in life and develop your talents.

Next is the part for those who are ready to go into a relationship.

[ Things to do here and now, to prepare for a great relationship ]

1. Get rid of pressure,especially peer pressure. In this weird world we live in, the culture is such that most people be the age of 15 will have at least a girlfriend or boyfriend, but we must do our best to remain pure and holy and only go into a relationship when you are ready.

2. Let go of disappointments. If you had been in a relationship, and was hurt in the process, for get it all. Forget the pain and move on with life. Because dwelling on such hurtful memories may cause you to be self-destructive. For example, if you've been hurt in a relationship, and when you do find a good partner, the chances are that you would exact your revenge on him or her. And that's being unfair to the other person because he or she has never done anything to hurt you.

3. Delete the word "Unfaithfulness" . For those who are married or in a very serious relationship, remain truthful and trust each other wholeheartedly, and remain faithful.

4. Decide not to marry a non- christian! It is often much easier to interact and connect with people of the same goals and passions as you. And since you are a christian (generally) , you might as well find someone whohas the same interests and goals as you!

5. Finally, make a vow of sexual purity. We must live a life of holiness and purity as the devil is lurking in every facet of society, waiting for a chance to attack you in the form of unpure and sinful sexual practices as well as people. Therefore God, i pray that you will bless this generation to be pure and holy because in this dark era, we need you more than ever to keep us chaste and on fire for you.Amen.